By Dr. Brent Conrad
Clinical Psychologist for TechAddiction
In the very first article in this series, it was concluded that Facebook is not an addiction.
Therefore, why discuss how to overcome Facebook addiction, reduce time spent on Facebook, and provide tips on stopping Facebook addiction disorder?
The answer is that even though Facebook addiction disorder is not an official clinical diagnosis like pathological gambling, excessive (and obsessive) Facebook use does appear to be a problem that quite a few people are struggling with.
How problematic is Facebook addiction disorder? TechAddiction's articles on why Facebook is addictive, The Facebook Addiction Test, and Facebook addiction statistics may give you some sense of how common Facebook overuse is and some of the problems associated with spending too much time on Facebook.
At the very least, it seems fair to say that some people spend far too much time on Facebook, have difficulty cutting back, and that this may cause problems with real world relationships, family, school, or careers.
For these individuals, TechAddiction presents the following helpful list of suggestions, advice and tips for dealing with Facebook addiction disorder.
1) Admit that Facebook addiction disorder may be something you need to address. Although "admitting that you have a problem" definitely qualifies as a cliché at this point, it remains true that you must recognize that a problem exists before you will be motivated to do something about it.
2) Not sure if you are addicted to Facebook or if it is causing significant problems in your life? Complete the 30-
3) Keep track of just how much time you are spending on Facebook. Keep the list next to your computer (take it with you if you are on Facebook at work, school, or other places). Take note of how often you log on, how long you stay connected, and what you are doing (e.g., posting, commenting, reading news, games, etc). If you want to beat Facebook addiction you need to know just how much of a problem it is.
4) Ask significant others (close friends, family) how they feel about the amount of time you spend on Facebook. Ask them for honest feedback, be prepared to listen, and try not to be defensive. Do they believe that you are addicted to Facebook? Would your relationship with this person improve if were able to cut back on the time you spend on Facebook?
5) Set a predetermined amount of time allowed for Facebook per day. For most people, 60 -
6) When you log on to Facebook, set an external reminder for your allotted time. This may be a timer on your computer, a reminder from a friend or family member, or a physical timer sitting right next to you. When your time expires, log off -
7) Limit the number of automatic feeds and status updates you receive. Do you really need automatic updates from that person you haven't talked to in ten years and really have no desire to ever see in person again?
8) Purge your Facebook friends as appropriate. After signing up for Facebook most users go though a period in which they try to accumulate as many friends as possible. At some point though, you need to ask yourself if having 200 friends is more work than it is worth. Is quality over quantity something that you could apply to your current list of Facebook friends?
9) Make one day per week a "Facebook Free" day. Worried that your friends will think that you are ignoring them? One day really isn't very long, but if absolutely necessary just let them know ahead of time that you will not be checking Facebook for the day and that they should email or call if they must reach you.
11) Turn off email notifications. Receiving constant notifications every time someone sends you a message only serves to (unnecessarily) pull you back to Facebook. Ask your friends to use traditional email, text, or phone if they have an important message. Comments on photos, general status updates, and results of compatibility tests do not require your immediate notification!
12) Step away from the computer (and no one will get hurt). How many hours a day do you spend at your computer for none-
13) Make a list of the things you no longer do because of Facebook. Who do you neglect because of Facebook? What hobbies, interests, sports, or other activities have you lost interest in because of the amount of time you spend on Facebook? Ask yourself if you are truly happy about all the sacrifices you have made just to spend more time online.
14) If you are really serious about defeating Facebook addiction, consider blocking your access to the site itself. You can do this from within your browser, by editing your "hosts" file (ask a computer-
15) Related to the previous point, you can use also use the program iFreeFace to block access to Facebook (and other time-
17) Remove the Facebook app from your smartphone. Again, if people need to reach you ask them to send a text message or call you. Remove the Facebook temptation wherever possible!
18) This may sound crazy, but if you are addicted to Facebook it is possible to deactivate your account. Many people have done so without regret -
19) Clarify the value of Facebook in your life. Make two lists. One lists outlines how Facebook adds to the quality of your life (e.g., staying connected with family in another part of the country, meeting new people, promoting your business, etc). The second list describes how some aspects of Facebook detract from the quality of your life (e.g., excessive gaming, wasting time hatching eggs or competing surveys, etc.). Facebook can certainly be a part of a well-
20) Reduce how often you change your status. It probably isn't necessary to broadcast your random thoughts and changing emotions multiple times throughout the day. Set a goal of only updating your status once per week as you slowly decrease your time on Facebook.
21) How many applications do you have installed on your Facebook account? How many are productive and how many are pure time wasters? Hint: If they involve gaining points, receiving gifts, taking tests, or watching things grow they are probably time wasters. Go ahead and keep a few of these if you like (life isn't always about being productive), but delete most of your applications that are pure time wasters -
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